The parent should train a student paddle one's own canoe ability, go to a supermarket shopping for instance, can make the child much make a few decisions. "The decision is made in daily life, also be to give the child to ponder over an opportunity independently, can drive the education of child learning definite idea. " Tian Wei says, many colleges are own now recruit students, value most also be the original opinion that whether the student has him and the ability that think independently.